THE UNMARRIED IN CONTROL
They have a lot of issues they are going through. The yet to marry that leads a team or congregation of people have issues that they might not be able to spill out of their mouth. If such single a Christian or disciplined (moral) personality reacts, you will notice that they have grievances to contend with. Also if such person is selective and courteous, they may have to wait for a long time.
How do you perceive singles in control, leading great numbers of people among which are beautiful willing girls and lovely to be with young men, that might be interested?. Some of these singles might be searching and have not found, divorced or dumped, suffering from emotional pressure. Some are once stalked and never want to be stalk again, once fallen into wrong hands. Some were battered and beaten in marriage, some had infertility issues, some are still virgin and don’t want to share their body with someone of lower standard to them. Some are also afraid of losing because for a young man to be in the midst of girls and don’t desire or have any; there is a lot behind that. Also for a woman to have lovely men around her and yet give attention to none speaks a lot.
Marriage is one aspect of every human life that is very important. No woman wants to be used and dumped, neither will you find a man that want to get married and not be comfortable, but once life issues happen, then it must be tackled God’s way. So singles in control amidst so many willing beautiful girls and lovely handsome men may pick up some nasty character in other not to fall. He may look away from those that need his help, because he doesn’t want to be emotionally entangled. Naturally, a grown up individual will be drawn towards opposite sex and if not for some reasons, such individual should marry. It is a major part of every man on earth. In the scripture, we found these:
I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 The NLT renders it this way: So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows—it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am. But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.
So as long as you have feelings for being with an opposite sex, then you must marry, because your fall into lust is just a matter of short time. Also some men have this illusion that the reason Paul the Apostle was able to surpass the disciples ahead of him was because he stayed unmarried, that’s not correct. Their is a woman for every man, there is that opposite sex that suites your journey in life. Always remind yourself that God created the institution of marriage and organised the first wedding. Jesus also started his miracle ministry at a wedding. Genesis 2:18-25 John 2:5-11. Some people also believed that if they marry, they will be injurious to another person due to the battles of life; anyway, except your battles are unwinnable and your illness is incurable, you are eligible for marriage. Luke 1:37 For with God nothing shall be impossible.
To the Singles in control; I want you to remember that Jesus was also in the midst of crowd as a single man. He wasn’t married throughout his earthly short year’s ministry. He said …for the prince of this world cometh, and hath nothing in me. John 14:30 He was tried in several ways but he wasn’t gotten by the prince of this world. Any woman walking with the Lord should not deviate from the promises of God as Jesus’ kind of man is about to come her way. There are women that have gone through divine fiery furnace which has refined them for God’s sons. You will find them in Jesus name.
Some reasons why Singles in Control will not want to pick among so many:
- None of them is fit into the big Picture.
- Far from what God had shown to him or her.
- Self respect/worth
- Competition and compromise.
- Future Problems in leadership.
- Fraud
- Falling to equal level from being the controller.
Also when it comes to marital relationship, most Christians want to be sure they are led by the spirit of God. For the unmarried and the ones seeking God’s face for marital favour, hear this:
And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 2 Corinthians 12:9
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