I want to appeal to you before you read further to:

  • Believe what you are about to read.
  • Practice what you are about to read.
  • Work and walk with it and if you don’t know Christ, if you have not surrendered your life to Jesus Christ then their is no guarantee that you can partake of the blessings thereof.

The world we are in today is what we can refer to as tech-world, finger-tips world, artificial world, personal way-out world, knowledge-based world but it’s so sad that many (persons) in this generation had left the simple way to enjoy life and buy hard life for themselves. There is nothing that you need that is not created already; you may only need to manufacture (or discover) them. On this solution to marital stagnation of those of us searching, this master piece is written called. Finding Your Spouse Through The Eye Of God

It’s recorded in Genesis 2:22-23 that’ And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.  *And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. On this note I won’t use the word Life Partner, I will rather use ‘Your Spouse, (husband or wife) Why? Even those that had lost their wife or husband (widow and widower) still need to engage it; if they chose to re-marry (Marry again) Every man and woman individually are not complete because of what God did here in Genesis 2:18-22 which says’

God removed the rib from the first man to make him a woman; Therefore every woman is made for a man. Every man is not complete until he finds his woman. Yes! Many of us had left God out of this matter and that’s why we kept repeating same class, so many had enter into different relationships that end suddenly or gradually which left them in anguish and serious pain, some are divided within, they don’t even know who to marry, they are so confused. You must have heard of divorce after two months of wedding ceremony, but the day I heard of divorce right in the wedding then I know their is a problem!. Here let’s enumerate how some of us choose this days:

Who We Like: likeness is a game of preference, as in when you prefer a particular person more than others, may be because of the persons character or beauty. Psalm 45:1-2, 9-11 many had married that way and entered into marital hotplate; whenever there is current there is heat. Be careful about who you like!

Who We Love: is their anything wrong about marrying who you Love, especially when both of you are really in Love? Most time we fall into affection by what we see in individuals, how she talks, how she dress, his chest, how caring he is, why love suppose to grow when we meet, it has started growing and we are already arrested in our minds before the relationship got started read this two scriptures Song 4:7, Job 31:1

Lust: There is nothing wrong referring to your wife like this in marriage ‘Song of Solomon 4:1-6  but it’s absolutely wrong to be lust after a woman or a man when searching for a spouse, it will blindfold you from his/her real personality and mostly one can be trap by beautiful good looking container and poisonous content.

  1. Meeting People:Hey! Our Pastors, Parents, siblings and our good neighbours might have warned us about the friends we keep and people that speak into our lives, yet! How many of us had cared to listen and obey. 1Corinthians 15:33. The way we meet people and make friends in this generations are so many. Let’s list few of them: we make friends
  • Among our neighbours
  • Among co-students and co-workers(colleagues)
  • When travelling to places.
  • In Parties
  • On Social Networks.
  • Via calls
  • Via your Family.

All of these and more are the ways we meet new people and they become part of our life. You will find persons that appeals to you and those you won’t like to associate yourself with, even at that, when searching for your own spouse, (opposite sex to marry) you must FIND THROUGH THE EYE OF GOD

It’s so simple for every child of God to find through the eye of God. The following scripture will help in a great way John 10:1-9, Habakuk 2:1-3, John 14:14, 26 John 16:8-14. You must be filled with the spirit of God to enjoy this treasure. God can show you, who your wife or husband is, even whom you had never met depending on your oneness with the father God. In Genesis 2:22-23

We could deduct the following from the above scripture:-

God saw the loneliness of Adam and brought him a woman but in our days women want to select who (the man) they really want, their imagination look like this-tall, handsome, wealthy and God fearing while they themselves don’t fear God, because if they fear God they would have put him first.

Every man needs to look away from around to God, from those your beautiful girls to God only, from your so-called angels and those ladies you really admire to God only, Until you do that, you will keep marking anniversary of marital stagnation. Jesus said in Matthew 5:27-28 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. You may suffer in the works of your hands and almost in everything until you look away from those images to Jesus Hebrew 12:2 says Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. It’s your maker that can give you the right person. Two wrongs can never make a right, the reason is One wrong person in your life is enough to get your lifetime wasted. You shall not suffer any more In Jesus Name.

For all our women in Zion, the daughter of the king of kings; start praying to God, to show you; who your husband is, so that when he approaches you, you will smile and shout Hallelujah! Your spouse is nowhere else but in God.

Matthew 7:9-10 Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?

I also believed that God will not give us a stone when we ask him for bread neither give us serpent when we ask him for fish.

Make sure you practice all you have read and the Lord will be good to you.

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Ayonimyte Zion Fellowsip

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